There’s a quote that reads ‘’A private life is a happy life’’. But does same apply when in a relationship? Especially when insecurities and egos are at play? One may also opt for a quiet and low-key relationship where he she gets to enjoy all aspects of the relationship without any interruptions from third parties be it relatives, friends or work/school colleagues. This topic reminds me of the hit sitcom Scandal and all the problems associated with the presidents supposedly secret relationship. Now, lets move to the pros and cons of both. You may be able to make a choice of which you prefer after reading. For purposes of this article, we will term one a public relationship (known to all) and the other, private relationship (known to only the parties involved). Wait! The only difference here is that in the public relationship other people or third parties are actively involved and may even influence some decisions you take in your relationship. You may have to deal the pressures coming from other people poking their noses into your relationship but you can easily find out if your partner is cheating. However, in a private relationship, you get to enjoy your privacy, easily take decisions that affect each other without confusing views from third parties but is very difficult to determine if your partner is cheating because he she can apply the same efforts applied to keeping your relations private elsewhere without you knowing.
There you go. The choice is in your hands. Carefully decide which type of relationship you will want to be in.