Yes! You may be attracted to that one person you spend your whole day thinking about. And Yes, you may be willing to do whatever it takes to be with Him her but, what’s the motivation behind this burning desire to want to be with? Is it the sight of her perfectly shaped hip and round backside or his carefully partitioned 6 pack, a dashing smile and eyes?
It could be his Lambo he was riding in when you guys met or even the 6-figure cheque you know comes her way every month. Well, the question here is: Why do you want to have a thing with him/her? Is it that you are attracted because of the sexual chemistry you feel when you are with that person or S/he compliments you in ways that is rare to find? Could it be because of his caring attitude and how he shows concern about the daily happenings in your life? Are you loving for sexual gratification or you want to be in a purposeful relationship?
Many problems in relationships stem from this. When relationships are not clearly defined even before we start to be a thing. Why put yourself through all this stress? Be honest about your intent and expectations, lookout for similar interests, have a mutual agreement on where the relationship is going so you don’t string them along only to find yourselves in a whole lot of mess.
Do the needful and go on to enjoy a happy relationship.